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Breaking a Bad Dating Pattern

If you are ready for love and need to ditch an old dating pattern, now is a perfect time to set that intention. If you have had a bad dating pattern – like going for unavailable or hurtful people, having chemistry with those who are bad for you or being closed due to...

A Soulmate for Christmas

Are you ready for soulmate love ASAP? I have a suggestion. It may sound crazy but believe me, I’ve seen crazier and it all WORKED! When it comes to love, doing something different can be helpful.   SO the suggestion? Give yourself a soulmate for Christmas. Seriously....

3 Mind-blowing Secrets to Connecting

Whenever I teach my yearly “Date for Your Soulmate” Telecourse, peoples’ minds are blown at how easy it is to make contact once you gain a little know how. It is easier than you think to become a master connector so that after a conversation, someone simply cannot get...

Love in An Instant

  Many that I work with have a false idea about how love will happen for them. They think there should be measured, obvious progress that leads in a logical way to love. Wrong! Love simply does not work that way. Love happens in an instant, and your life is changed...

No Man’s Land

  The moment that you meet someone interesting, there is a tendency to get a bit crazy. What happens? Hope arises which in turn can bring up vulnerability, fear and anxiety. We used to see people in the Crisis Clinic suffering far too much over a new dating situation....

The Allure of the Unavailable

  Spiritually speaking, we are so deeply hardwired for freedom that it can make unavailable people look good. It keeps US free (yes, this can mean YOU are unavailable!) if we pursue or wait for someone unavailable. Attracting unavailable people and worse, paying...

Being Lonely is GOOD!

Why Being Lonely is a Good Thing   If you are single and feel moments of loneliness, this is a good thing. It is indicative that you have a vacuum in your life, a space for love to come into. Being lonely means that you are wide open for The One. This void, though it...

Security v Excitement

So many lament to me that they either seem to meet someone solid to date or someone exciting, elusive and erratic. It can seem like a standoff between a safety blanket versus wild chemistry. I have a strong opinion on this. I simply do not believe in tradeoffs. In...

Laissez-Faire Dating

I took French in school and always loved the term laissez-faire, which means an attitude of letting things take their course. It’s not a bad principle to use in dating – to a point. The goal is to not date long but date well without stressing yourself out. Here are...

The Eel

Some of the worst cases of attachment I’ve seen come from people who got hooked by THE EEL. Definition of The Eel: someone who seems in your grasp, but then slithers away just when you thought it was going somewhere, only to reappear again as you give up hope....