The Secret Fear

Q: Kathryn, I’ve heard you talk about this before, and it applies to me. I have a fear that somehow I’m left out of love. I cannot stand when people ask me, “why are you not married?” thinking it’s a big compliment, which makes me feel...

Where Is My SOULMATE?!

Q: Kathryn, I’ve done so many things to welcome in love. I don’t know what my problem is but I must be doing something wrong, because I’m still waiting. And waiting. I have been on so many dates (not great ones) and go to a lot of parties. But I...

4 Hot Tips for Love Attraction

Q: Kathryn, summer is here, and I’m beyond ready for love. What can I do to find love this summer? I’m feeling more hopeful than usual. A: Your hopefulness is already making you more magnetic to love. I hope you’ll concentrate on keeping that faith...

The 3 Date Rule

Q: Kathryn, I’m just starting to date a guy, and he has been making some sexual innuendos from the beginning. On date #3 last Saturday, he asked me if I knew the “3 date rule” when I didn’t want to get hot-and-heavy. What?! I’m supposed...

Dating Out of Your League

A term that you often hear in the singles world is dating “out of your league”. If you’ve been doing my work for a while, you can predict what I’m about to say. There is no such thing as dating out of your league. We are all equals and any concept that...

Social Distancing & Dating – how can it work?

During this time when social distancing is not only suggested but being enforced in many areas, it can seem to halt your search for love I know if you’re single, you may be soul-searching, lonely and realizing you need to get serious about finding love Luckily, there...

Why Not ME?!

Hi, there! Here’s another question one of you sent in that I’m answering today. It’s a good one, one I often get, and I hope it’ll help. Q: I have a friend who annoyingly, always has a boyfriend. The minute one relationship ends, she finds another boyfriend right...

He’s out of my league

Q: Wow, Kathryn! I did your Soulmate Bootcamp, and I’m now faced with what you call a “quality problem” I’ve met the hottest guy I’ve ever laid eyes on and we’ve been on a couple of dates But I’m completely intimidated by him. He feels WAY out of my league!!!! It’s a...

Finding Love in the Holidays

If you’re despairing at being single over the holidays, take heart! It is very common for people to meet their soulmate somewhere along the year-end festivities. Perhaps, it is the intensified longing that brings love or the many parties or reaching out that is done...

Am I Destined to Be Alone?

Q: Dear Kathryn,  I am a fan of your work. I’m a single woman in my early thirties and my track record with men has been disastrous. The men I went out with abused me. In spite of the abuse I received, I stayed because I thought being with someone was better...