Never had a long term relationship

Q: Kathryn, the longest relationship I ever had was just a few months. And that was in my 20’s. Now I’m turning 40, and it’s been a long time since I’ve had a relationship that lasts longer than 6 weeks. What is wrong with me?! I’m losing...

Get It Over With: Tear Off the Bandaid!

Q: Kathryn, I have been in love with a man for several years. We work together in my office. We flirt, but nothing more has come of it, and I am too shy to say anything. I just found out he got engaged, and I am devastated. No matter how hard I try to release, my love...

2 secrets to go beyond your limit

Q: Kathryn, I feel so stuck in my life. I had a rough childhood and am so happy that at last I’m on my own now But I hate my job and am barely making ends meet.    And on top of that, I can’t seem to keep anyone I’m interested in The ones I don’t want will come around...

Valentine’s SOS

Are you single and kind of dreading Valentine’s Day? You are not alone. I have tons of emails every year from people in your same boat so take comfort from that. I’d like to help by reminding you of the following: 1. Valentine’s Day was created by a...

Do I Have a Chance?

Q: I’ve been seeing this guy I really like. It started out super strong and now is petering out. He’s not calling as much, and doesn’t plan ahead for dates with me. I wonder if I did something wrong that pushed him away . . . like be too needy. Do...