Never had a long term relationship

Q: Kathryn, the longest relationship I ever had was just a few months. And that was in my 20’s. Now I’m turning 40, and it’s been a long time since I’ve had a relationship that lasts longer than 6 weeks. What is wrong with me?! I’m losing...

Do I Have a Chance?

Q: I’ve been seeing this guy I really like. It started out super strong and now is petering out. He’s not calling as much, and doesn’t plan ahead for dates with me. I wonder if I did something wrong that pushed him away . . . like be too needy. Do...

Where Is My SOULMATE?!

Q: Kathryn, I’ve done so many things to welcome in love. I don’t know what my problem is but I must be doing something wrong, because I’m still waiting. And waiting. I have been on so many dates (not great ones) and go to a lot of parties. But I...

4 Hot Tips for Love Attraction

Q: Kathryn, summer is here, and I’m beyond ready for love. What can I do to find love this summer? I’m feeling more hopeful than usual. A: Your hopefulness is already making you more magnetic to love. I hope you’ll concentrate on keeping that faith...

The 3 Date Rule

Q: Kathryn, I’m just starting to date a guy, and he has been making some sexual innuendos from the beginning. On date #3 last Saturday, he asked me if I knew the “3 date rule” when I didn’t want to get hot-and-heavy. What?! I’m supposed...