Dear Kathryn,

I’m 3 weeks into a romance just like you describe. I am exhausted. This guy is every single thing that I want. I’m so worried he will slip away that I’ve got insomnia. It’s been a whirlwind, and he says all of the right things. He cannot seem to be without me for too long. Is this too good to be true? Help!

This is what we call a “quality problem,” one we’d all love to have, right? And it’s very typical of those who do my work. I get letters like this often. If you haven’t had soulmate love yet, when it comes, it can freak you out. If it’s so terrifying, this uncovers a problem. Those who have a hard time accepting their good are NOT UP TO SPEED with it.

Yes, they still get their love – as evidenced by my client who ended up with a panic attack in the emergency room thinking her love was leaving her while he was cooking up a proposal.

However, you can expedite your journey to love by being wide open to that One who will blow every other romance you’ve had out of the water.

Here’s how:

1. Build yourself up. The more you feel deserving of love, someone perfect in your eyes, the quicker (s)he will come and the less rattled you will be when your soulmate arrives.

2. Get used to the idea. Start imagining this person in your life now. When you make what you want more real to you than your present situation, it can’t help but come. And you will also get more sleep as you begin dating your One 🙂

3. Let go of the fears. Angst, nervousness, desperation – these are major delays to love. If you want love quickly, you must get rid of these, and find the faith that will put your love life into warp speed.