Get It Over With: Tear Off the Bandaid!

Q: Kathryn, I have been in love with a man for several years. We work together in my office. We flirt, but nothing more has come of it, and I am too shy to say anything. I just found out he got engaged, and I am devastated. No matter how hard I try to release, my love...

2 secrets to go beyond your limit

Q: Kathryn, I feel so stuck in my life. I had a rough childhood and am so happy that at last I’m on my own now But I hate my job and am barely making ends meet.    And on top of that, I can’t seem to keep anyone I’m interested in The ones I don’t want will come around...

Do I Have a Chance?

Q: I’ve been seeing this guy I really like. It started out super strong and now is petering out. He’s not calling as much, and doesn’t plan ahead for dates with me. I wonder if I did something wrong that pushed him away . . . like be too needy. Do...

Who finds love the easiest?

Q: Kathryn, I know you’ve had a lot of success with your holdouts, those people who haven’t found love easily   But I want to play devil’s advocate here (and yes, I am frustrated)   Who are these people who are not holdouts? Who are those who find love so easily and...

I Give Up!

Q: Kathryn, I love your work. I’ve read your book Love Will Find You and done all the exercises (twice) and regularly do the audio recordings as well. I’m 36 and I’ve been single for three years now although it feels like longer because my...