Never had a long term relationship

Q: Kathryn, the longest relationship I ever had was just a few months. And that was in my 20’s. Now I’m turning 40, and it’s been a long time since I’ve had a relationship that lasts longer than 6 weeks. What is wrong with me?! I’m losing...

2 secrets to go beyond your limit

Q: Kathryn, I feel so stuck in my life. I had a rough childhood and am so happy that at last I’m on my own now But I hate my job and am barely making ends meet.    And on top of that, I can’t seem to keep anyone I’m interested in The ones I don’t want will come around...

Valentine’s SOS

Are you single and kind of dreading Valentine’s Day? You are not alone. I have tons of emails every year from people in your same boat so take comfort from that. I’d like to help by reminding you of the following: 1. Valentine’s Day was created by a...

Do I Have a Chance?

Q: I’ve been seeing this guy I really like. It started out super strong and now is petering out. He’s not calling as much, and doesn’t plan ahead for dates with me. I wonder if I did something wrong that pushed him away . . . like be too needy. Do...

What Holds You Back?

Usually, when I’ve worked with people privately or in small groups, there is ONE THING that holds them back from getting what they want: a primary issue. Some know, and have tried to no avail to get rid of it. Others have no clue, and it is an amazing when the light...