2 secrets to go beyond your limit

Q: Kathryn, I feel so stuck in my life. I had a rough childhood and am so happy that at last I’m on my own now But I hate my job and am barely making ends meet.    And on top of that, I can’t seem to keep anyone I’m interested in The ones I don’t want will come around...

Valentine’s SOS

Are you single and kind of dreading Valentine’s Day? You are not alone. I have tons of emails every year from people in your same boat so take comfort from that. I’d like to help by reminding you of the following: 1. Valentine’s Day was created by a...

Do I Have a Chance?

Q: I’ve been seeing this guy I really like. It started out super strong and now is petering out. He’s not calling as much, and doesn’t plan ahead for dates with me. I wonder if I did something wrong that pushed him away . . . like be too needy. Do...

Who finds love the easiest?

Q: Kathryn, I know you’ve had a lot of success with your holdouts, those people who haven’t found love easily   But I want to play devil’s advocate here (and yes, I am frustrated)   Who are these people who are not holdouts? Who are those who find love so easily and...

Too good to be true?!

Q: Kathryn, I did your course and now, I’ve finally met someone. It’s scary because he’s everything I’ve wanted. I find myself getting nervous, thinking that it’s too perfect, maybe too good to be true?! He’s the one who voluntarily...