I Give Up!

Q: Kathryn, I love your work. I’ve read your book Love Will Find You and done all the exercises (twice) and regularly do the audio recordings as well. I’m 36 and I’ve been single for three years now although it feels like longer because my...

The Secret Fear

Q: Kathryn, I’ve heard you talk about this before, and it applies to me. I have a fear that somehow I’m left out of love. I cannot stand when people ask me, “why are you not married?” thinking it’s a big compliment, which makes me feel...

Where Is My SOULMATE?!

Q: Kathryn, I’ve done so many things to welcome in love. I don’t know what my problem is but I must be doing something wrong, because I’m still waiting. And waiting. I have been on so many dates (not great ones) and go to a lot of parties. But I...

The 3 Date Rule

Q: Kathryn, I’m just starting to date a guy, and he has been making some sexual innuendos from the beginning. On date #3 last Saturday, he asked me if I knew the “3 date rule” when I didn’t want to get hot-and-heavy. What?! I’m supposed...

Dating Out of Your League

A term that you often hear in the singles world is dating “out of your league”. If you’ve been doing my work for a while, you can predict what I’m about to say. There is no such thing as dating out of your league. We are all equals and any concept that...